Concept: I live in a tiny cabin in the woods. I dry my laundry on a clothes line. I wake with the sun, stay up late reading and nap during the afternoon in a hammock. I have a garden full of flowers, herbs, vegetables and berries. I go on picnics regularly by a nearby river. I rarely need to leave my beautiful home tucked away in the forest.
You don’t vibrate with the universe, you vibrate with your higher self. There are high and low vibrations. You want your vibrations to be high. People who vibrate on a higher scale are self aware, care for their bodies and spaces, are kind to others, have a great outlook on life, etc. Those who vibrate on lower scales neglect themselves, are rude to others, leave their spaces messy, and have no positive outlook on life. We’re never all high vibrations or all low vibrations, but you should aim for them to be as high as possible. The universe doesn’t care about you personally; it only judges the energy you give off. The better that energy, the more occurrences like synchronicity and chains of good luck appear in your life. The universe rewards those who reward themselves.
in an ideal world i am invisible to men, walk around wearing agent provocateur boudoir shoes and flowy dresses and wake up every day with old hollywood curls
“grandma” activities and aesthetics are only considered for “elderly” or “unattractive” women because they are based around prioritizing yourself and your own physical comfort and lack of concern for societal norms…
I find professional women tend to assume asking for less means she is not mandated by him. As a result of this, the only men who can deal with them are the “fixers” “pushovers” or “convenient gentlemen.”I had a conversation with my mentor about dating and I couldn’t help but be perturbed. She desires a man who wouldn’t be attracted to her. A man who is sweet, romantic, generous, passionate, understanding and handsome. She doesn’t like to be touched, loves to argue, impatient, hates surprises and dinner dates. Yes, dinner dates. She prefers coffee dates. This was shocking to me seeing that she has a Cartier collection and loves to pamper herself. I asked her “What’s her value?” She replied, “I work at a top firm, travel, take care of myself and ambitious.” Then I asked her “Do you tell men this?” She smirked, “Of course.” I responded, “That’s why you are single and struggling.”
What she wants doesn’t match what she can give. The only men who care about where you work, how much you make or if you have an apartment are men who need a roommate, can’t host, or needs a girlfriend who works too. You are attracting men who will depend on you. That’s lowballing.
The men I date don’t care about my job, they want me. They want the experience of me.
The outfits
The laughter
Jumping up and down while holding their hand
Going on top of them when they are sleeping so they wake up to kisses.
Listening to their dumb stories and rants about life.
Not being afraid of saying “This is not enough for me” and never speaking to them again.
Me biting my lips and staring at him when he’s on a business call
My reaction of receiving gifts and dancing
Generous men want an experience, regular men want convenience. Think about it, the lower the income the more sexual fluid and dependable he expects you to be. I wish she could understand that. I have dated less and received more because I don’t give everyman an opportunity. High standard from the beginning, darling. When F sees me, he expects an escape. During our last vacation, we were returning to our room and I stopped in the hallway and told him to hold on. I played “Grind On Me- Pretty Ricky and started slow grinding and humping the air and went on the floor.
He laughed so hard, his veneers fell out of his mouth.
I’m fucking tired of seeing all these posts and blogs by aspiring, newbie or fake blogs talking about “gross or ugly SD’s or Clients". The reason we get paid the rates or allowances we do is because we’re doing something (more like someone) most people DON’T WANT.
Let me clear this up for you pretty, naive little girls: This is the SEX industry, meaning YOU are the sexually desired, and THEY are the consumer.
With the small exception of about 5% being the attractive/young men with a ton of money they probably didn’t earn, the rest has a reason why they’re looking to HIRE you. I will repeat, yes there will be exceptions that are not that unattractive or old but again, those are the exception NOT THE RULE.
Realistically, why would a gorgeous, wealthy man not date normal women he doesn’t have to say that he paid for when women are lining around the block for him? That would be like you fucking these old, crusty ass dudes for free when you’ve already won the lottery. Wouldn’t your young and beautiful self just date men your age then?
Take it from someone who’s been in the industry for several years now. Most of your clients will not even rate a 3-4 on a 1-10 scale when compared to vanilla men your age.
There will be:
•morbidly obese men
•men old enough to be your grandfather
•ones with terrible hygiene
•definitely rude and entitled jackasses that will make you secretly hate yourself sometimes
•wrinkles, wrinkles and wrinkles
•sandpaper French kisses
•some with body odor that cologne can’t cover up
•scraggly, hairy chests
•balding scalps with few strands left held on by his last shred of dignity
•moments when you tower over your very short SD or client
and it is YOUR job to:
•make them feel sexy, adored and in love.
•make them come
•hold their hand in public
•even kiss them so often infront of people, regardless of your 30+ gap
•be able to have the mental strength to withstand the judgmental sneers and glances.
•get dressed up in lingerie for them
•let them touch and grope you
•pretend to enjoy it when they go down on you
•giggle at his terrible jokes
•make out with them when they’re basically treating your entire face like an ice cream cone
•maybe be forced to watch yourself have sex in the mirror he chose for the suite
•convince him his dick is probably as good as his son’s
All these dumbass girls with their heads up their asses literally believe the fake accounts on here. Do you really think making more than an average person’s weekly checks in a few hours is that easy? Yes, there are exceptions where the SD/Clients aren’t that bad. BUT, it takes seeing dozens of the expected type of client before ACCIDENTALLY running into an exception.
I see too many barely legal girls sitting on Tumblr believing they can just quit school, and every Brad Pitt on the site will come along and hand them 5k for MUTUALLY satisfying sex. 😂😂😂
Listen, if you’re not able to prepare yourself and be able to walk into a hotel room with a man (age 35-99) that’s a 2 on a 1-10, you don’t have what it takes to pull in high income as the girls you’re envying.
This is not easy work.
There’s always a price to pay for everything, especially money.
I find professional women tend to assume asking for less means she is not mandated by him. As a result of this, the only men who can deal with them are the “fixers” “pushovers” or “convenient gentlemen.”I had a conversation with my mentor about dating and I couldn’t help but be perturbed. She desires a man who wouldn’t be attracted to her. A man who is sweet, romantic, generous, passionate, understanding and handsome. She doesn’t like to be touched, loves to argue, impatient, hates surprises and dinner dates. Yes, dinner dates. She prefers coffee dates. This was shocking to me seeing that she has a Cartier collection and loves to pamper herself. I asked her “What’s her value?” She replied, “I work at a top firm, travel, take care of myself and ambitious.” Then I asked her “Do you tell men this?” She smirked, “Of course.” I responded, “That’s why you are single and struggling.”
What she wants doesn’t match what she can give. The only men who care about where you work, how much you make or if you have an apartment are men who need a roommate, can’t host, or needs a girlfriend who works too. You are attracting men who will depend on you. That’s lowballing.
The men I date don’t care about my job, they want me. They want the experience of me.
The outfits
The laughter
Jumping up and down while holding their hand
Going on top of them when they are sleeping so they wake up to kisses.
Listening to their dumb stories and rants about life.
Not being afraid of saying “This is not enough for me” and never speaking to them again.
Me biting my lips and staring at him when he’s on a business call
My reaction of receiving gifts and dancing
Generous men want an experience, regular men want convenience. Think about it, the lower the income the more sexual fluid and dependable he expects you to be. I wish she could understand that. I have dated less and received more because I don’t give everyman an opportunity. High standard from the beginning, darling. When F sees me, he expects an escape. During our last vacation, we were returning to our room and I stopped in the hallway and told him to hold on. I played “Grind On Me- Pretty Ricky and started slow grinding and humping the air and went on the floor.
He laughed so hard, his veneers fell out of his mouth.
